Do you finally want to get out of the waiting game as Projector and easily attract the right opportunities into your life? Then you might like this post as we dive in the Human Design Strategy and learn how to wait for the invitation as Projector in ease.
Whether you are a Projector yourself or have Projectors in your life, understanding this essential element is key to harnessing Projectors unique gifts and embracing their role as the valuable advisors they are.
Are you ready to attract the most aligned invitations in your life ? Let’s jump in.
oh no, I have to wait!
When you begin to engage with Human Design, you quickly learn how important it is to follow your Types Strategy in order to live up to our highest potential.
As a quick reminder, the Human Design Strategy shows us how to deal with opportunities that are aligned with our highest potential. Attracting the right opportunities is important in different areas of life such as career, relationship, living space, etc.
By waiting for invitations as a Projector, you are not only honoring your unique design but also opening yourself up to a world of possibilities. Embracing this strategy allows you to conserve your energy and focus on opportunities that truly align with your purpose and potential. Imagine the satisfaction of knowing that every invitation you receive is a genuine opportunity for growth and contribution.
I meet a lot of Projectors who aren’t happy with their «Wait for the Invitation » Strategy as they feel dependent from others. They feel obliged to be passive and do nothing until somebody come to take them by the hand asking «Would you like to do … ?».
If your first thoughts about this strategy are similar, it is obvious that you feel disempowered and resistant to being a Projector.
But there is another way to look at this Strategy that will make you feel light, joyful and give you the power about your life back.
Who's writting these lines?
Hi and welcome back to the rewilded leader blog. My name is Shanne and I help women in business to rewild their feminine side, creating inner harmony and holistic well-being to feel fulfilled in personal and professional life.
I share with you here my own experience I collected through the years since I learned about being a Projector. The solution I share with you is the one that feels the most aligned and empowering in my body. However, this may be different for you. So you’re welcome to adapt my interpretation of the Projector Strategy, after checking in within it this feels light, delicious and juicy in your body too.
why it's important to wait?
As a projector, you see more than other people. You easily understand the energetic dynamics between people, situations and groups. You easily recognize the leak that needs to be fixed to improve the whole situation. Projectors are there to guide the other types and share their valuable insights with them. Especially with the Generators & Manifesting Generators who then put this into action.
In return, the Projector wishes to be recognized for these valuable insights. That’s how our nature turns.
Here’s the thing
Sometimes people are not ready to hear these insights. They react with a lack of understanding, they don’t agree with you, shut down or they don’t act in accordance with your advice.
Probably they don’t even seem to hear what you have said to them. The complete opposide of what the Projector looks for. This creates frustration and bitterness in a Projectors Body. Because you know about the importance of this advice, but you feel not heard and ignored.
Therefore it gets really clear and obvious why we should wait for an invitation: To protect yourself from being fustrated, feeling unheard and being disapointed.
The Strategy is here to help you to spread your valuable message only on the vertile grounds. As Projectors are non-energetic beings, you have limited energy. Therefore it’s even more important to be selective. More about this in another post.
In order to apply the Projector Strategy in ease, we have to be aware of that. By following your Strategy, you can recognize which opportunities are worth investing your time and energy in and which are not.
«But, that still gives me the feeling of being dependant on others to be ready. » So let’s solve that feeling of disempowerment and claim our Projector Magic !
Turn waiting into attracting
I share with you now the points that has helped me a lot to see the waiting from a place of confidence and power.
» Waiting for the INvitation is not being passive
Frist of all we need to understand that nobody said that we need to be passive, while waiting. If you’re standing in line for entering the cinema, it’s also up to you if you just want to stare and wait, being bored and annoyed or if you start talking with the person next to you, listen to a podcast or doing some nice strechting exercises. You see, it’s all a matter of perception, how we decide to see a given situation.
How to make Lemonade out of the lemons?
Many of us live out of a certain victim mode. We follow what we learnt to have to follow. We obey. It seems safe to live up to others rules. On the other hand side it temps down your self esteem and makes you forget about your inherent force. In every situation, with every given situation, it’s your choice how to look at it : As a bad thing, or a positive thing.
So what can we do while waiting? We can share and show what we love to do, putting us in the places where we can be seen by others.
» get magnetic
The more you align with your Design, the more you’ll naturally attract invitations that resonate with your authentic self. And when I say „more,“ I’m referring to quality invitations, not just an abundance of them. Not every invitation is automatically the right fit for you. It’s essential to discern which opportunities align with your higher self. Your Authority in Human Design serves as your guiding compass in navigating these invitations.
However, when you stray from your Design, bitterness tends to surface. It’s like a cloud that shrouds your radiance, making you less appealing to others. When we exude bitterness, we repel those around us, creating distance instead of attraction.
Consider this scenario: Imagine walking into a room. On one side, there’s a woman beaming with joy, confidence, and warmth. Her energy is infectious, drawing you in like a magnet. On the other side, there’s someone sulking in the corner, emitting an aura of negativity and discontent. Who would you be naturally drawn to? The answer is clear.
By embracing your Design and radiating your authentic essence, your magnetism will naturally amplify, drawing in the right people and opportunities that align with your highest potential.
» healing the productivity wound
Are you comfortable with the idea of not always being productive? How do you feel when you’re waiting? Are you afraid no opportunities will come, or are you confident and enjoying life anyway? It’s natural to feel uneasy about non-productive moments as society often glorifies busyness, but as a Projector, it’s important to embrace rest and waiting for the right opportunities.
How do you approach waiting? Do you worry about missed opportunities, or do you trust in life’s timing? Embracing waiting means shifting your mindset and finding fulfillment and peace in the present moment, regardless of achievements.
Reframe waiting as an opportunity for growth and self-discovery. Use non-productive moments to nourish your soul and deepen your connection with yourself.
Continue the integtration process
In a few words, following in your Strategy is beneficial for you in many ways: You share your insights to the right time in the right place where it’s heard, what allows you to lean back and recharging while feeling confident that another invitation is on its way. That inner calmness amplifies your magnetism what draws even more aligned people into your world.
Now you know how you can work with this particular Strategy. Please keep in mind embodying your Design is a process. Celebrate yourself for the little steps you do, be gentle and patient with your evolution.
But if you do wish support on your embodiment journey, let me introduce my Human Design Embodiment Session. This 1.5h Online Meeting help you find sustainable and safe ways to live in harmony with your Design, without compromising your inherent beauty. Clic here to learn more.
Would you like to keep on reading and learn about how to live in alignment as a Projecotr? Check out this blogpost where I introduce you to the ways of living as a Projector.
what are your experiences?
I’d love if you share this blogpost with other Projectors to help them tap into their highest potential and feeling empowered and confident in their uniqueness.
Have you ever experienced the power of waiting for the right invitation as a Projector? I’d love to hear about your journey and insights! Share your experiences in the comments below and join the conversation with fellow Projectors.👇
Thanks for being on that journey to a more fulfilledlife in alignment with your uniqueness.
Let’s rewild, Honey !
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